Counsellor profile
Andrew Merz, BACP
BACP counsellor - family and relationship concerns
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- Stress and anxiety
- Parenting strain
- ACT and CBT methods
About Andrew
Andrew Merz is a BACP-registered counsellor in the United Kingdom with five years of professional experience. He works with adults who are under stress, feeling low, facing grief, or struggling with parenting and relationship concerns. He also supports people dealing with anxiety, addiction, trauma, and issues around intimacy and identity.
Andrew uses straightforward conversation to identify what feels most urgent. He draws on approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based work, Client-Centred techniques, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy to shape sessions. That means some weeks the focus is on practical steps and thought patterns, and other weeks it may be on how relationships or past attachments affect current stress.
Sessions are organised around what the client wants to change. He talks through coping strategies, routines for sleep and eating, ways to manage anger, and practical steps for parenting strain. He also works on longer-standing issues like abandonment, attachment problems, and body image when those come up.
Andrew aims to be direct yet respectful in sessions. He adapts the dialogue and plan to fit each person’s situation. He uses measurable goals when helpful, and skills practice between sessions when it can make a difference.
For people looking for straightforward, practical counselling about family matters, relationships, or personal stressors, Andrew offers an adult-focused approach that mixes practical techniques with relational attention.
How sessions work
How Andrew uses psychological approaches online
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice painful thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them. It often includes values work and small actions that match what matters to the person. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thinking patterns and testing new ways of thinking and behaving. It can help with anxiety, depression, sleep, and coping with change. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships influence current responses and connection styles. It can be useful when relationship patterns or abandonment issues keep repeating.Finding the right approach is part of the work. Andrew will talk with the client about goals, preferences and what has helped in the past. Together they decide whether a skills-focused CBT week, values-based ACT work, or attachment-focused conversations suit the current need. The choice can change over time as priorities shift.
The practical benefits of online sessions include fitting counselling around family and work commitments and avoiding travel time. The platform and exact session options should be confirmed before booking since formats are not specified here. Many people find short mid-day check-ins or evening appointments easier to fit into a parenting schedule. Andrew will discuss how to structure appointments so they work within everyday life.
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Experience
5+ years
Listed in
United Kingdom
Languages
English
Questions
Frequently asked questions
What concerns does he help with?
He works with adults on stress, anxiety, depression, grief, parenting strain, relationship issues, trauma, addictions and related concerns.
What is his therapeutic style like?
He uses a mix of practical and relational approaches, including ACT, attachment work, client-centred methods, CBT and DBT, adjusted to each person.
How much experience does he have?
He has five years of professional experience working with adults in the United Kingdom.
What credential does he hold and where is he based?
He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and is based in the United Kingdom.
Can he meet people in other languages?
Sessions are offered in English.
Does he take clients from other countries?
He does not accept international clients at this time.
How are sessions arranged and paid for?
Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time; check the booking details for exact fees.
How do I begin working with him?
Use the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.
Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.
Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is in danger, use the crisis numbers.