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Christian Jacobs

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Christian Jacobs, LMFT

California

LMFT - Parenting and individual stress support

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About

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Parenting concerns
  • CBT and DBT tools

About Christian

Christian Jacobs is a California licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) with nine years of professional experience. He focuses on stress, anxiety, parenting concerns, self-esteem, career problems, and coping with life changes. He also helps with addictions, trauma and abuse, grief, and intimacy-related issues.

Clients meet a therapist who favors straightforward conversation. Sessions aim to identify what is most pressing and work on small, practical steps. Christian uses problem-focused talk and skills practice rather than long theoretical explanations.

His approach draws on client-centered listening alongside practical tools from cognitive behavioral therapy and dialectical behavior therapy. That combination is used to help people change unhelpful thoughts, reduce reactive patterns, and learn new ways to manage emotions and behavior.

He also integrates existential questions about meaning and the Gottman Method ideas for improving relationship interactions when those fit a person’s goals. Christian pays attention to attachment and abandonment issues, blended family concerns, and fatherhood topics when they arise in sessions.

People who turn to him often want help with sleep problems, anger, ADHD symptoms, or caregiver stress as part of wider life strain. He works in English and accepts international clients, and he recommends following the simple intake steps on his profile to begin scheduling a first session.

How sessions work

How his approaches translate to online work

Christian uses client-centered listening to help people speak about what matters most and feel heard. This approach focuses on the client's priorities and encourages steady, open conversation to clarify goals and next steps.

Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is used to identify unhelpful thoughts and test new ways of thinking and acting. CBT helps with anxiety, depression, sleep problems, and behavior patterns that get in the way of daily life. Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) supplies practical emotion-regulation and distress-tolerance skills that can be practiced between sessions to reduce reactivity and manage strong feelings.

Deciding which method to use is collaborative. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, try approaches that suit those aims, and adjust techniques over time based on what helps. Clients and therapist work together to find what fits the person's needs, schedule, and preferences.

The therapist's original biography did not list specific session formats. Please confirm the current online session options before booking. Many people find that online sessions make it easier to fit therapy into a busy routine, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time so brief breaks or lunch-hour sessions are possible.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersAnger managementBipolar disorderDepressionCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

9+ years

Listed in

California

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he work with?

He works with stress, anxiety, parenting, self-esteem, career changes, addictions, trauma, grief, sleeping and anger problems, and related issues such as attachment and blended family concerns.

What is his therapeutic style?

He combines client-centered conversation with practical techniques from CBT and DBT and sometimes draws on existential perspectives or Gottman ideas for relationship interactions.

How much experience does he have?

Christian has nine years of professional experience working with adults on a range of life and relationship stresses.

What credential does he hold and where is he based?

He is a California LMFT and practices from California.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography did not specify session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are sessions priced?

Cost varies with location, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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