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Deborah  Schnitzer

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Deborah Schnitzer , LCSW

New York

LCSW - Relationships and Family concerns

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About

  • Attachment-based work
  • CBT techniques
  • Emotion-focused tools

About Deborah

Deborah Schnitzer is a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) in New York with 21 years of practice. She works with relationship and family challenges, trauma and abuse, parenting strain, anxiety, depression, grief, stress, and related issues such as anger and self-esteem.

She speaks plainly in sessions and focuses on skills people can use between meetings. She does not promise quick fixes. Instead she teaches practical tools drawn from cognitive approaches and emotion-focused work. She values straightforward feedback and asks clients to be active participants in the process.

Her background includes teaching at graduate and undergraduate levels. That classroom experience informs her clear explanations and her emphasis on learning concrete strategies. Over two decades she has supported people facing life changes, caregiving stress, blended family problems, and attachment-related concerns.

Deborah uses a mix of approaches to match what each person needs. Her work draws on attachment-based thinking, client-centered methods, cognitive behavioral techniques, dialectical behavior strategies, and emotionally-focused ideas. She also incorporates trauma-aware practices when relevant.

Sessions tend to focus on identifying patterns, practicing new responses, and building day-to-day coping skills. People who come to her for parenting strain, family-of-origin issues, or intimacy-related concerns can expect direct conversation about behavior, emotions, and small next steps. She asks people to try tools between sessions and to notice what changes over time.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches and how online sessions work

Deborah draws on attachment-based ideas to notice how early relationships shape current patterns. That approach looks at how closeness, trust, and expectations affect feelings and behavior in relationships. It can help with intimacy-related concerns, family-of-origin patterns, and commitment worries.

She also uses cognitive behavioral therapy, which focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and practicing different responses. CBT aims to give clear skills for managing anxiety, depression, and stress, and for changing recurring behaviors. In sessions she combines these methods with client-centered conversation to keep the work grounded in each person's experience.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Deborah will collaborate with the person to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences. That decision is revisited as therapy continues so strategies can be adjusted.

The original biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current online options before scheduling. Many people find that fitting sessions into a weekday evening or a lunch break helps sustain regular work. Online meetings can reduce travel time, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and make it easier to continue care during life transitions. Licensed professionals, including therapists, will discuss practical details like session length and frequency when arranging a first appointment.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseParenting issuesCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

21+ years

Listed in

New York

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?

She works with relationship and family challenges, trauma and abuse, parenting strain, stress, anxiety, depression, grief, and related issues such as anger and self-esteem.

What is her therapeutic style like?

She uses direct, practical conversation and teaches tools to use between sessions. The approach blends emotion-focused and cognitive techniques with attention to attachment patterns.

How much experience does she have?

She has 21 years of clinical experience and has taught at graduate and undergraduate levels, which informs her clear, instructional approach.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is an LCSW licensed in New York and practices from that state.

Does she work in languages other than English or with international clients?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

Which session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current online and in-person options before booking.

How are fees structured?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin a first session?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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