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John Shafer

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John Shafer, LCSW

New York

LCSW focusing on relationships and family concerns

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About

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Parenting support
  • Acceptance and CBT

About John

John Shafer is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) practicing in New York with 25 years of experience. He lists a wide range of concerns he helps people with, including stress, anxiety, relationship and family matters, trauma and abuse, depression, addictions, parenting, grief, and sleep problems.

He trained at Syracuse University School of Social Work, graduating with a Master of Social Work in 1998. His career includes work in rural community mental health, school-based settings, and both city and suburban programs. That mix of settings informed how he works with people from different economic and cultural backgrounds.

Over time he developed skills across several therapy methods. He commonly draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, client-centered therapy, mindfulness, narrative approaches, strengths-based work, and solution-focused techniques. Sessions tend to emphasize practical strategies and clear goals.

He has experience seeing people across a broad age range and has run individual, group, and couples therapy in past roles. He also reports ongoing diversity training and attention to gender identity and cultural differences in his practice.

In session he aims to work collaboratively, helping people set person-centered goals and practice techniques between meetings. He uses approaches that guide people toward clearer choices and more manageable daily routines.

How sessions work

How his therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) encourages people to notice thoughts and choose actions that match their values rather than getting stuck on unwanted thoughts. It can help with anxiety, low mood, and life changes by building small, value-driven steps. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thinking and testing new behaviors. It is often used for anxiety, depression, sleep issues, and problems with daily routines. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) offers skills for managing strong emotions, improving distress tolerance, and strengthening interpersonal effectiveness, which can be useful for anger, relationship strain, and mood instability.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals and preferences and then try approaches that fit practical needs. This is a collaborative process where methods are adjusted based on what helps most in day-to-day life.

Confirm the exact session formats before booking since the biography does not list specific online options. In general, online work can make it easier to fit sessions around parenting and work schedules, allow shorter check-ins when time is tight, and let people choose less bandwidth-intensive ways to connect if needed. Licensed professionals can adapt ACT, CBT, and DBT tools for remote use so skills are practiced between sessions and applied at home.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

25+ years

Listed in

New York

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he help with?

He helps people with stress, anxiety, relationship and family concerns, trauma, depression, addictions, parenting, grief, sleep problems, and related issues listed in his profile.

What style of therapy does he use?

He commonly uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, client-centered methods, mindfulness, narrative, strengths-based, and solution-focused techniques.

How long has he been practicing?

He has 25 years of clinical experience since completing his Master of Social Work in 1998.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) licensed in New York and practices from that state.

Does he offer sessions in other languages?

Sessions are offered in English only.

Can I have a remote or international session?

He is not accepting international clients; please confirm the current session formats and location options before booking.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

What do I do to start a first session?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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