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Lynfa Wharam

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Lynfa Wharam, NCPS

United Kingdom

Psychotherapeutic counsellor - relationships and parenting

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About

  • Client-Centred Therapy
  • Cognitive Behavioural Therapy
  • Hypnotherapy

About Lynfa

Lynfa Wharam is a psychotherapeutic counsellor and hypnotherapist with seven years' experience. She is registered with NCPS and works from the United Kingdom. Lynfa lists stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy-related issues, self-esteem, depression and addictions among her core concerns, alongside parenting, family matters and coping with life changes.

She writes plainly and uses an integrative approach. That means she draws on different therapies rather than sticking to one method. Sessions are conversational and practical, with attention to patterns in relationships, communication and emotional responses.

Her background includes twenty years in the law, working for international firms in London and Essex. That experience shaped a pragmatic style and an ability to work with real-life pressures such as career stress and caregiving demands. During the pandemic she volunteered as a mental health practitioner supporting health and care staff.

Lynfa uses Client-Centred Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Jungian ideas, hypnotherapy and mindfulness tools depending on the issue. She can address intimacy and sexual-health topics, and lists work with relationship difficulties, commitment issues, attachment and abandonment concerns, and blended family challenges.

In sessions she helps people talk through communication problems, grief, eating and food-related worries, and practical parenting strain. She also works with people on ADHD-related coping, career decisions and recovery from abuse or trauma.

To begin, she asks people to complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session. The site uses a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time; fees vary by location.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches for online sessions

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and reflecting back what matters to the person. It helps when someone needs space to speak about relationship strain, parenting stress or self-esteem issues and feel heard.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at patterns of thought and behaviour and offers practical strategies to change them. It is often used for anxiety, low mood, and coping with life transitions.

Hypnotherapy involves guided relaxation and focused attention to work on habits, stress responses and some mood or behavioural issues. It can be offered alongside talking therapy when a client and therapist agree it suits their goals.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and practical needs and recommend a mix of methods. Decisions about which techniques to use are made together and can change as therapy progresses.

Confirm the current session options before booking, as the biography does not specify formats. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy household or workday and can reduce travel time. Talk-based and technique-driven work can be adapted to shorter check-ins or longer sessions depending on what helps with everyday life.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefEating disordersParenting issuesCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)HypnotherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She addresses stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy-related issues, self-esteem, depression, addictions, parenting and family concerns, plus grief and coping with life changes.

What is her therapeutic style?

She uses an integrative, practical approach that mixes conversation with techniques from different therapies to suit each person's needs.

How much experience does she have?

She has seven years' clinical experience and previously worked for twenty years in international law firms in London and Essex.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is registered with NCPS and is based in the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?

Sessions are offered to international clients and are conducted in English.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees handled?

Costs vary with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I get started?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is in danger, use the crisis numbers.

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