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Nicola Hill

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Nicola Hill, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - relationships and parenting

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About

  • Mindfulness practice
  • Emotion-focused work
  • Attachment ideas

About Nicola

Nicola Hill is a BACP counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with five years' experience. She works with people dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem and parenting pressures. She also supports those facing grief, life changes, addictions and sleep problems.

Nicola uses person-centred principles alongside mindfulness and emotion-focused work. Sessions focus on what matters most to the client. She listens, reflects and helps people notice patterns that keep them stuck. Practical tools for changing unhelpful self-talk are part of the work.

Her background includes mindfulness facilitation and a history of teaching yoga. That experience informs breathing and body-awareness exercises she brings into sessions. Nicola also uses approaches that look at attachment and relational patterns to understand how early relationships affect current behaviour.

Clients can expect a conversational style. Sessions often include gentle experiments in how to relate differently to thoughts and feelings. There is space to talk through grief, anger or guilt and to try out new ways of making decisions or setting boundaries.

Nicola offers coaching elements for people who want structured steps towards goals. She blends reflective listening with practical strategies so people can practise new responses between sessions. To start, she asks about current struggles and what a better next step would look like for the person.

How sessions work

How her approaches work in online sessions

Nicola commonly combines Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Attachment-Based ideas with person-centred listening. ACT helps people notice difficult thoughts and choose actions that match their values, which can help with anxiety, depression and life changes. Attachment-informed work looks at how early relationships shape current patterns and can be useful for relationship strain, communication problems and parenthood concerns.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Nicola will discuss goals, preferences and current difficulties and suggest which methods to try. That decision is collaborative and can change as needs evolve.

If you are thinking about remote sessions, please confirm the session formats offered before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed and reduce travel time. It also makes it possible to practise mindfulness exercises and emotion-focused tasks in your usual setting, so changes can be tried out between sessions.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsGriefSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBody imageCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityJealousyLife purposeSelf-harmSelf-loveSmoking / vaping cessationWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyEmotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of family or parenting issues does she support?

She supports people with parenting strain, fatherhood issues, family problems, divorce and separation. That includes stress around caregiving and communication breakdowns at home.

How would she describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is conversational and person-centred, using reflective listening, mindfulness and emotion-focused exercises to help people change unhelpful patterns.

How much experience does she have working with these concerns?

She has five years' experience working with issues such as anxiety, grief, low self-worth, relationship problems and life changes.

What are her professional credentials and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies by location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin a first session?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is in danger, use the crisis numbers.

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