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Paul Smith

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Paul Smith, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - Relationships and family concerns

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About

  • Client-Centred Therapy
  • Fatherhood issues
  • Grief and loss

About Paul

Paul Smith is a BACP counsellor based in the United Kingdom with 15 years' experience. He focuses on issues such as stress, anxiety, depression, relationships and family concerns. He also helps people coping with grief, addictions, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related concerns, anger, self-esteem and major life changes.

Paul uses a client-centred approach. He encourages people to talk through what is happening and to find greater clarity about what needs to change. Sessions are intended to be a straightforward space to sort through feelings and practical next steps. He aims to treat the person as separate from the problem, rather than labelling someone by their difficulties.

Across his work he has supported people with a broad range of additional issues, including attachment and abandonment concerns, communication and control problems, codependency and commitment worries. He has experience with fatherhood issues, family problems, divorce and separation, and responding to the effects of domestic violence. He also works with people affected by autism and Asperger syndrome and those struggling with emptiness or forgiveness.

Paul has been seeing clients since 2011. He frames therapy around open listening and helping people reach practical conclusions about change. Conversations in sessions focus on understanding what matters to the client and deciding on steps they feel able to take between meetings.

People who want clear, steady conversation about their situation may find this way of working useful. Paul offers sessions in English and accepts international clients, with further details provided when arranging initial contact.

How sessions work

How Paul uses Client-Centred practice online

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on careful listening and reflecting back what the client says. It aims to help people understand their feelings and decide what they want to change. This approach is commonly used for relationship concerns, low mood, anxiety and grief because it centres the client's own experience rather than imposing solutions.

The therapist frames sessions as a collaborative process. He will work with the client to identify what feels most pressing and to try different ways of approaching it. Together they check whether the way of working is helpful and adapt it to the person's goals and preferences.

The profile does not specify which online formats are offered, so please confirm the available session types before booking. Many people find online sessions useful because they can fit appointments around work and family life, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. If a particular session length or arrangement matters to you, mention it when booking so options can be discussed.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefDepression

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsSelf-loveSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Which concerns does he help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family concerns, grief, addictions, trauma and related issues listed in his profile.

What is his therapeutic style?

He practises Client-Centred Therapy, which focuses on listening, reflection and helping clients find their own solutions through open conversation.

How long has he been practising?

He has around 15 years' experience, seeing clients since 2011.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is listed with the BACP and works from the United Kingdom.

Can I work with him if I live outside the UK?

Yes. He accepts international clients and offers sessions in English.

Which session formats are offered?

The original profile does not list specific session formats; please confirm current options before booking.

How are fees handled?

Costs vary with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin and book a first session?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule your first session via the system.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is in danger, use the crisis numbers.

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