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Phyllis Smith

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Phyllis Smith, LMFT

North Carolina

LMFT focused on family and parenting concerns

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  • CBT techniques
  • Mindfulness tools
  • Gottman informed

About Phyllis

Phyllis Smith is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in North Carolina with five years of clinical experience. She works with adults on issues that often show up at home, including stress, anxiety, relationship concerns, parenting strain, depression, grief, addiction, and identity questions.

She aims to center each person's goals and uses a collaborative process to clarify what matters most. Sessions focus on practical steps people can take to change patterns that cause distress. Phyllis draws on strengths clients already have and points out small shifts that can lead to steadier days.

Her work uses client-centered listening alongside cognitive behavioral techniques to notice unhelpful thinking and try new behaviors. She also incorporates mindfulness practices to manage intense feelings and elements of the Gottman Method for relationship-related concerns. These methods are mixed depending on the topic someone brings.

Phyllis often frames difficulties in the context of family and close relationships. She pays attention to attachment and family-of-origin patterns, blended family dynamics, and communication problems that keep conflict cycling. She also addresses issues such as abandonment, caregiver stress, and intimacy-related concerns.

Sessions are intended to be straightforward and goal-focused. Phyllis works with people to set clear, manageable objectives and then tracks progress over time. This approach helps make therapy feel useful between visits.

Her practice is conducted in English and is based in North Carolina. People who want to begin complete a brief matching questionnaire and schedule an initial session through the provider's online options.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches and remote work

Phyllis uses client-centered therapy to focus on each person's concerns and priorities. This approach involves attentive listening and helping people name goals they want to reach. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, helps identify unhelpful thoughts and test new behaviors to reduce anxiety, low mood, and patterns that cause conflict.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the process. Phyllis will work with clients to decide which methods fit their goals, needs, and preferences. Decisions about approach are collaborative and can change as therapy progresses.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current online options before booking. Generally, remote sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life - they can shorten commute time, allow a quicker check-in during a workday break, or remove the need to travel. Talk with the therapist when scheduling about practical needs like session length, camera use, and timing so therapy fits into everyday routines.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsParenting issuesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Listed in

North Carolina

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of family and parenting issues does she address?

She works with adults on parenting strain, blended family problems, communication breakdowns, and family-of-origin concerns.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

She uses a collaborative, client-centered approach and applies practical methods like cognitive behavioral work and mindfulness exercises.

What level of experience does she have?

She has five years of clinical experience working with adults on relationship, mood, and family-related concerns.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is an LMFT licensed in North Carolina and practices from that state.

Can she work with people who speak other languages or live abroad?

Sessions are offered in English and she is not accepting international clients at this time.

What session formats are offered?

Please confirm the current session options before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work together?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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