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Stefan Bain

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Stefan Bain, LCSW

Tennessee

LCSW - Sexual and relationship concerns

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About

  • Sex-related issues
  • Performance and infidelity
  • Anger and addiction

About Stefan

Stefan Bain is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with 30 years of clinical experience based in Tennessee. He lists a wide range of concerns he helps people with, including stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship and intimacy-related issues, grief, parenting, family matters, and trauma and abuse. He also notes work with ADHD, bipolar concerns, sleeping problems, and self-esteem struggles.

Stefan trained at UC Berkeley with postgraduate work at Vanderbilt University. He describes a practice focused on sex-related issues and works only with men on problems such as performance concerns, infidelity, sexual compulsion and porn addiction, and sexual disorders. He also addresses related factors that often affect sexual concerns, like anger, addiction, anxiety, depression, trauma, and body image.

In sessions he uses conversational, interactive methods. He draws on methods from cognitive behavioral approaches, attachment and emotionally-focused ideas, and client-centered work. The goal is practical tools people can use between sessions to manage symptoms and daily stressors.

Stefan frames therapy as collaborative problem-solving. He says treatment plans are developed through discussion and adjusted as needs change. He aims for progress that continues after formal therapy ends.

People reading who are considering therapy for sexual concerns, relationship strain, parenting stress, or overlapping mental health issues will find a clinician who focuses on those topics and who works in English and accepts international clients.

How sessions work

How Stefan’s approaches translate to online sessions

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on noticing thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, then choosing actions that align with personal values. It can help with anxiety, avoidance, and decisions tied to relationships or sexual concerns. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the link between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and offers practical exercises to change unhelpful patterns; it is often used for performance anxiety, mood issues, and sleep problems. Attachment-Based Therapy pays attention to patterns of relating and emotional responsiveness, which can be useful when intimacy or relationship trust is part of the problem.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Stefan will collaborate with the client to pick and adjust methods based on the person's goals and what happens in sessions. That choice can change over time as progress is made and new issues come up.

Session logistics should be confirmed before booking because specific formats are not listed in the biography. Online therapy can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy day, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. Ask about scheduling, length of session, and whether sessions will be by video, phone, or another supported option when you complete the matching questionnaire and set your first appointment.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesDepression

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

30+ years

Listed in

Tennessee, California

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he help with?

He focuses on sex-related issues for men, including performance problems, infidelity, sexual compulsion, porn addiction, and sexual disorders. He also addresses related concerns like anxiety, depression, anger, parenting stress, and trauma.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He describes his style as interactive and conversational. Sessions involve practical discussion and development of tools to use outside therapy.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has 30 years of experience working as a psychotherapist, with graduate training at UC Berkeley and postgraduate study at Vanderbilt University.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, listed as CA LCSW and TN LCSW, and practices from Tennessee.

Does he work in languages other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with him?

He accepts international clients. Confirm any time zone or scheduling details when arranging sessions.

How are sessions scheduled and what formats are offered?

Please confirm current session formats before booking as the biography does not list specific formats. The platform's See online therapy options button guides you to scheduling details.

How does pricing and billing work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. Use the matching flow to review fees before scheduling.

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