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Victoria Small

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Victoria Small, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - family and parenting concerns

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About

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Trauma-informed work
  • Mindfulness practice

About Victoria

Victoria Small is a BACP counsellor working in the United Kingdom with ten years of clinical experience. She helps people who are coping with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship concerns and parenting pressures. She also offers support around trauma and abuse, addictions, sleep and eating difficulties, and issues linked to neurodiversity such as ADHD.

Victoria works in a straightforward, person-focused way. She listens to the practical problems people bring and helps them identify clear next steps. Sessions look at what is happening now, what patterns keep repeating, and small changes that can reduce pressure at home.

Her background includes approaches that centre the client’s experience and focus on emotional processing. She uses client-centred methods to follow what matters to the person, and emotionally-focused techniques to understand relationship and intimacy concerns. Mindfulness-based work is used to build present-moment coping for anxiety and sleep problems.

Victoria also uses solution-focused and trauma-informed methods to help people set goals and manage the impact of past harm. That can mean short-term, goal-driven conversations, or slower work to address traumatic memory and its effects on daily life. She discusses options together and adjusts the plan as needed.

People usually come to Victoria for help with family tensions, parenting strain, or coping with bereavement and major life changes. Her practice is aimed at adults seeking practical support for problems at home and in relationships.

How sessions work

How Victoria uses evidence-based approaches in online work

Victoria draws on client-centred therapy to place the person’s concerns at the heart of sessions. That approach means the therapist listens closely and follows what the client says matters most, helping them set goals and make decisions about next steps.

She also uses emotionally-focused therapy to look at relationship patterns and intimacy-related difficulties. EFT-style work helps people name feelings, see how they affect interactions, and try new ways of communicating that can ease tension at home.

Mindfulness therapy is used to build present-moment coping skills for anxiety, sleep problems and stress. Simple attention and breathing practices are taught and practised in session, then applied to daily routines to reduce reactivity and rumination.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Victoria treats that as a collaborative process and will help clients choose methods that suit their goals and preferences. Plans are reviewed and changed if something is not helpful.

The biography does not list specific session formats. Confirm the available online options before booking to understand what will fit your schedule. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into busy days, allow shorter check-ins, or avoid travel time. Registered or accredited professionals and therapists commonly adapt tools and exercises to work well across different online arrangements.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommitment issuesControl issuesDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDParanoiaPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyEmotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of family or parenting concerns does she help with?

She supports adults dealing with family conflict, parenting strain and relationship tensions. The focus is on practical ways to reduce stress at home.

How would she describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is client-centred and emotionally-focused, with a practical emphasis. She combines listening with steps you can try between sessions.

How much experience does she have?

She has ten years of professional experience working with issues such as anxiety, trauma, grief and parenting challenges.

What is her professional credential and location?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.

Can she work with non-English speakers or international clients?

Sessions are offered in English. She does not accept international clients at this time.

Which session formats are available?

Session formats are not specified in the biography. Confirm current session options with the therapist before booking.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions are provided through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

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